Funeral Bouquets in Astana — for the Funeral, 9 and 40 Days
Choosing flowers in a moment of loss is hard, and there is little time: usually less than a day passes between the call about a tragedy and the funeral itself. ROZY works 24/7 — a funeral bouquet can be ordered at night, early in the morning or straight to the morgue. We observe the etiquette: an even number of flowers, muted tones, restrained wrapping with no bows or balloons. The courier hands the bouquet to the responsible person outside the hall, without disturbing the atmosphere. This page is a practical guide: which flowers are appropriate, how much a bouquet costs, how to deliver it to the morgue or cemetery, and what to write on the card.
Funeral Bouquet Etiquette: Colour, Number and Format
The main rule is an even number of flowers: 2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12. In Slavic and Kazakh tradition an even number is associated with passing, an odd number with joy and life. If you get it wrong and bring 7 or 11 roses, it will be noticed at once. Colours are restrained: red, white, dark burgundy, cream. Yellow, orange and mixed bright bouquets are not brought to a funeral. The wrapping is natural or minimalist, without bright ribbons, bows or glitter. Balloons and soft toys are excluded entirely — they belong to happy occasions.
The choice of flower depends on the age and gender of the deceased. For an elderly person, chrysanthemums and carnations are appropriate (the classics of mourning). For a young person — white roses or callas. For a woman — combinations of roses and lilies. For a man — carnations (especially red ones, a symbol of courage and remembrance). Lilies are often brought in Kazakhstan, but bear in mind their strong scent — in a small room it can be overwhelming.
Flowers and Their Role in Funeral Bouquets
| Flower | Suitability | Note |
|---|---|---|
| Carnations | The classic mourning flower, for everyone | Last the longest, no scent |
| Chrysanthemums | For the elderly, traditionally | Voluminous, good for a basket |
| White roses | For the young, for women | Restrained solemnity |
| Lilies | For solemn mourning | Strong scent — keep in mind |
| Callas | An elegant, unconventional choice | Pricier, for significant losses |
Formats: Bouquet, Basket, Wreath
On the day of the funeral, one of three formats is usually brought: a bouquet (for a close friend or colleague — 8–12 flowers, handed to the family), a basket (for the family of the deceased, placed by the coffin, 15–25 flowers) or a memorial wreath (from an organisation, a team or relatives — large, on a stand, with a mourning ribbon).
For the 9th and 40th days, more modest bouquets are brought, because they are laid on the grave or given to the family as a token of remembrance. If the family has already moved past the acute phase of grief, you can offer a living potted plant (white orchids, for example) that will remind them of the departed far longer than cut flowers.
When to Choose Each Format
- Bouquet (from 4,500 ₸) — compact, 6–12 flowers, in kraft wrapping. Suitable if you personally knew the deceased and come as a friend or colleague. Handed to the family or laid by the coffin.
- Basket (from 10,000 ₸) — a stable format of 15–25 flowers with greenery. Placed by the coffin or the photograph of the deceased. Convenient because it does not need to be put in water and holds its shape throughout the day of the ceremony.
- Memorial wreath (from 25,000 ₸) — a large arrangement on a stand with a mourning ribbon and an inscription ("In mourning", "From the team of N"). Ordered by a company, an organisation or a large family. Check the timing — making a wreath takes 4–8 hours.
- For the 9th/40th days (from 3,500 ₸) — a modest bouquet of 6–8 flowers or a single mono-flower (3 white roses, for example). Laid on the grave or given to the closest relatives. The etiquette here is freer than on the day of the funeral.
Delivery to the Morgue, Cemetery or Home
ROZY delivers funeral bouquets to every address in Astana 24/7 — this matters especially for mourning, because a funeral does not wait. The courier coordinates the logistics: they can only enter the grounds of the morgue or cemetery as far as the checkpoint entrance, beyond which the bouquet is handed to the responsible person (a relative, a funeral agent, a representative of the funeral bureau). The exact handover time is usually strict — the ceremony begins at the appointed hour and being late is out of the question.
What to Specify When Ordering a Funeral Delivery
- Address — the exact name of the morgue (municipal, City Clinical Hospital No. 1, OMC, private) or cemetery (Raiymbek, Chubary, Muslim). For home delivery — the apartment address with the entrance.
- Time — exact (not an interval), for the start of the ceremony or memorial service. It is best to order 2–4 hours in advance so the florists have time to assemble it.
- Contact of the responsible person — the phone number of a relative or funeral agent who will meet the courier. Not the name of the deceased and not the phone of a family in shock — that would create extra stress.
- Card — short and formal: "We grieve with you", "In bright memory of [name]", "Condolences to the family". Without a "from" signature if you are not close to the family.
- Special requests — for example "no strong scent" (for a closed room), "white flowers only", "carnations only".
FAQ: Funeral Bouquets in Astana
Which flowers are given for a funeral in Astana?
Traditionally — an even number (2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12) of carnations, chrysanthemums, roses or lilies. The colours are muted: red, white, dark burgundy. Yellow and variegated flowers are not brought to a funeral. Carnations are the most classic choice for a funeral bouquet. Lilies add solemnity but have a strong scent — in a closed space they are not always appropriate.
How does a funeral bouquet differ from a bouquet for the 9th and 40th days?
For the funeral day itself, more formal arrangements are chosen — baskets, memorial wreaths, large sheaf-style bouquets. For the 9th and 40th days (and for anniversaries), more modest bouquets for laying on the grave or handing to loved ones are appropriate. Etiquette in Kazakhstan has softened: on the 40th day people often bring fresh flowers so the family can put them in water rather than only laying them on the grave.
How much does a funeral bouquet with delivery cost?
A modest bouquet of 6–8 carnations — from 4,500 ₸. A standard basket or medium-sized arrangement — 10,000–18,000 ₸. A memorial wreath from an organisation — from 25,000 ₸. Delivery across Astana is free on orders from 20,000 ₸. If it needs to go to a morgue or cemetery — specify the address in advance and the courier will coordinate the logistics.
Can I order a funeral bouquet delivered straight to the morgue or cemetery?
Yes. ROZY delivers to Astana morgues (municipal, City Clinical Hospital No. 1, OMC and others), to cemeteries (Raiymbek, Chubary, Muslim) and to family homes. When placing the order, specify the exact handover spot and the contact of the responsible person. The courier does not enter the mourning hall — they hand the bouquet to the responsible person outside, so as not to disturb the atmosphere.
What to write on a funeral bouquet card?
Formal options: "We grieve with you", "In bright memory", "Condolences to the family and loved ones". If you knew the deceased well, something more personal is acceptable: "We will remember [name]" or "Thank you for everything, [name]". Do not write "With love" and similar inappropriate phrases. The card is usually handwritten in block letters or printed — calligraphy is not needed.
Which flowers are inappropriate for a funeral bouquet?
Avoid: bright variegated arrangements, an odd number of flowers (odd is for joyful occasions), balloons, soft toys, colourful wrapping with ribbons and bows. Bouquets wrapped in film with a festive pattern are also not brought. For a funeral bouquet, natural wrapping in restrained tones is used — kraft paper, a black or white ribbon, a basic design.
For an urgent funeral bouquet order, call +7 (747) 290-42-53 — our manager will coordinate the time, format and delivery within a few minutes.